A Life of Love, Strength, and Faith
My journey began on 2 May 1958, in Calcutta. Because of my father’s business and work, I spent my childhood moving between Calcutta, Jaipur, Ajmer, and Merta. Despite changing schools and cities, I consistently topped my class and excelled in sports and cultural activities. My father adored me and I was the apple of his eye. Although there were people who were envious of me and tried to discourage me in my studies, I remained determined to succeed. His love and my own perseverance taught me that where there is a will, there is a way.
In 1973, I moved to Chennai to continue my education. I chose Pure Science with one dream: to become a doctor. However, life took a different turn when I got married on 30 June 1975. I had not wanted to give up my dream, but I became a homemaker and devoted myself to my family. I later wished to start a business too, but family circumstances did not allow me to pursue that ambition. Although I had to set aside some of my personal dreams, I never stopped moving forward.
My first child, a son, was born in 1976, followed by my daughter in 1978 and my youngest son in 1984. I dedicated myself to raising my children, managing the household, and ensuring they received the best education and opportunities in sports. Despite my responsibilities, I remained active in clubs, sports, and other activities. I never liked sitting idle and always found ways to keep myself engaged, continue learning, and make the most of life.
In 2008, after all three of my children were married, I began dedicating more time to social work and teaching. I wanted to give back to society, not for money or recognition, but because I felt a genuine desire to make a difference. I continued pursuing my interests in classical music and theatre while taking on leadership roles, including Chairperson of the Rajasthan Association Ladies Wing. At the All India Jain Conference in Delhi, I served as an advisor, secretary for two years, and later as vice president.
During this period, I developed a deeper interest in Jainism and devoted five years to studying Jainology, earning my Paramagam Honours in Jainology. My studies helped me understand the importance of the soul, inner peace, compassion, non-violence, and self-discipline. I wanted to practise these principles in my own life and share them with others.
Teaching has since become one of my greatest joys. I conduct free classes for around 30 women every Tuesday through the Virti group and teach approximately 63 women through Soul Touch, helping them understand Jainism in greater depth. I am especially happy when they tell me how much they enjoy the sessions and express a desire for their children to learn these values too. I have also taught around 83 girls at Harichand on Sundays, sharing moral values, life lessons, and the importance of happiness. I want to spread Jain education as much as I can, and I am ready to dedicate myself to it because I believe that sharing knowledge is one of the most meaningful ways to serve society.
My journey has also taught me to find happiness within myself. There was a time when being alone made me feel lonely, but health challenges and personal reflection helped me become emotionally stronger. I gradually learned to enjoy my own company and understand myself better. Today, I see spending time alone as an opportunity for growth, reflection, and inner peace rather than loneliness.
Sometimes, I think about the young girl who dreamed of becoming a doctor. Although I could not follow that particular path, I found another way to care for people, teach them, and contribute to their lives. My dreams changed, but my desire to do something meaningful never disappeared.
I feel blessed to have Jain Dharma in my life and a wonderful family. My mother has always been my role model, and my father’s love remains one of my most treasured memories. I am immensely proud of my four granddaughters and wish to see them happy, successful, and reaching great heights while remaining grounded in good values.
Today, my goal is to continue teaching, learning, and spreading Jain principles for as long as I can. I want people to understand that happiness comes not only from achievements or possessions, but also from compassion, self understanding, and peace within.
My ultimate goal is Moksha - liberation of the soul. Until then, I want to keep learning, teaching, and giving back to society. I may not have become the doctor I once dreamed of being, but I hope to continue touching lives, strengthening hearts, and bringing happiness to others in my own way.